Sunday, February 28, 2010

Help Out a Hampton Roads Navy Family

Are you looking for something to do in some of your spare time as the weather begins to break towards the spring? How about lending your expertise and time to assist a local Navy family here in Hampton Roads? The Smith family is rebuilding their home in the Hickory area of Chesapeake and will be needing volunteers to do many skilled and unskilled tasks. The family lost their home over a year ago to "toxic" mold. The time has come to rebuild and they need help! For more information on how you can assist one of our local military families, please go to www.smitheieio.com and learn how you can help. Also, if you are a contractor or have access to building supplies of any kind, please make contact with the family. Your time and efforts will be greatly appreciated.

To help this and other military families in need, visit www.operationhomefront.net/hamptonroads and register as a volunteer or service provider here in southern VA.

Tuesday, February 23, 2010

They’ve been together for 12 years and married for 7 of them. They promised each other to stick together through thick and thin – and right now is the really thin part.

Angelo was in the Guard and was just about to join the Army when his unit was activated. Candy had their second child, who is autistic, while he was overseas. He spent 3 days with his first child before going to boot camp. He spent a tour in Kuwait and then went to Iraq to fight in Operation Iraqi Freedom. That’s where everything changed and the “thin” began.

Angelo sustained severe injuries – his HumV overturned in a canal when it was attacked. He suffered a cracked skull (which resulted in brain surgery), several fractured vertebrae (which resulted in back surgery that left him paralyzed for 8 months), and an infection in his spinal cord – not to mention his PTSD. He was placed on medical hold.

For a while, he worked as a recruiter, fighting the medical discharge he was offered. You see, Angelo had always been a hard worker – always provided for his wife and children, but his injuries were such that he just couldn’t do it.

As of now, Angelo, Candy, Angelo, Jr., and Christopher are surviving on 70% disability. For a long time, he was receiving 40%. Then the Guard told him they had overpaid him by $18,000 and they needed it back – now.

They are appealing, but there’s another part to this story. Angelo and Candy are expecting their third (and last) child. Candy is due in March and they had bills galore, no car, no living room furniture and not a single thing for the new baby coming and no way to get it.

Candy’s Mother spent her savings to get them a car and they VA got them a sofa. The VA referred the family to Operation Homefront Hampton Roads. The first priority was to bring the Bencivenga family current with some of their outstanding bills and since that original referral, Operation Homefront Hampton Roads has been able to provide Angelo, Candy and the kids a gift card for groceries, and tons of items for the baby – crib, car seat, clothing, toys, furniture for the kids room and more. Each visit to drop off more items elicits excited cries from the kids and parents alike.

Things aren’t quite as “thin” as they were, but they are a long way from “thick”. Angelo is excited to be able to spend time with his newborn son when he arrives. Candy will go back to work as soon as possible.

When they were asked what the help Operation Homefront Hampton Roads has given them has meant, Angelo replied, “You saved us. You saved us worry. You saved us money we didn’t have. You saved us”.

YOU CAN HELP this and other military families like them. Please contact Operation Homefront Hampton Roads at hamptonroads@operationhomefront.net and let us know what you can do to help us help our military families.